Goodbye March You Will Not Be Missed

PLEASE SKIP OVER THIS POST IT IS MY JOURNAL TIME SO I CAN LOOK BACK ON AND SAY WE MADE IT!





The Saturday before valentines day Matt and I were working at the Temple something we have grown to love to do together! About an hour into the shift I randomly was in a lot of pain near my right ovary. I tried to brush it off like no big deal, but the pain kept getting worse and I could not even sit up. My mind was racing and I said a prayer. I kept thinking that the last time I was in this much pain was when my left ovary died two years ago. The pain continued to get worse and I went and found Matt and told him I needed to go to the Dr. as soon as possible. We quickly went home, changed and went to the ER. I spent the rest of Saturday in the ER they said that I had a cyst that I should rest and it should go away.

Matt and I were in communications with our parents and booked tickets home to see the Drs who performed my surgery and removed my left ovary three weeks before our wedding.

I layer in bed for a week Going crazy. The pain did not get better and I could not work which drove me nuts. The day after valentines day Matt and I flew to California to go to lots of Drs visits and have even more tests run on me. By the end of the trip the pain got a little better and we thought everything was ok.

That next Wednesday I went to work. I was so happy to be back. I tried to not stand or sit too much but I ended up being in so much pain I ended up going home at the end of the day in tears. The next week or so I tried to do what I could but was un able to get out of bed.

The Monday before my birthday I was in so much pain that we went back to the hospital where they ran more tests to see what was causing such severe pain in my lower abdomen. They could not find anything wrong but said if it continues that I should contact my Dr.

Once again Matt and I were communicating with our parents and we booked a flight to California this time the day after my 24th birthday. We had Drs appointments and a pre op appointment scheduled to see what was causing the pain.

My head was going crazy I had been flat on my back for a month which was driving me crazy and I didn't know what was wrong with me. I kept thinking what if my ovary died I will not be able to have children. All of my fears were not helped by having the Dr explain to me that if they remove my ovary I will go into menopause at 24 years old.

Matt was amazing throughout the whole thing, he was calm, patient, and took care of everything.

On Wednesday I went into surgery, the second one in less than two years. This surgery was a lot smoother than the last. They found that I have endometriosis and removed the scar tissue. I was so relieved. I spent the next week and a half in California recovering.

On Monday Matt headed back up to BYU for a conference. We were excited that I was getting back to normal and that our life could calm down a little. A little over a week after my surgery I had my post op appointment and my Dr. said that everything looked great. The next day I flew back to Utah to see my adorable husband and start working again.

On the way to come get me Matt got into a car accident injury his neck and our car. Now it is my turn to take care of my adorable husband.

I know this is long and may seem like I am being negative but I am grateful. I am grateful to be married to someone who makes me laugh even when I am upset with my situation. I am grateful that I can go back to work. I am grateful that I am healthy enough to take care of my husband. I am grateful I married someone who is hard working. I love that this has made us grow closer.

I just can't help but look back and say we are lucky. I am lucky that I still have 1 ovary. We are lucky that Matt was not hurt more. We are lucky that I still have my job. We are lucky to have great friends and family. We are lucky that we have a roof over our head! We are lucky that we have food. We are lucky that we can get out of bed. We are lucky that we have each other. Most importantly we are lucky to have a Heavenly Father who loves us and listens to our prayers!

Why I have the best Valenitne EVER

I know that I am a horrible person about blogging. I try to use this as my form of a journal. I try to write how I feel, or what I want to remember, or the occurrences in life. I am not very good at writing things down though.

My valentines day this year is very different than any valentines I have had in the past. Every plan that we had was thrown a curve ball. On Saturday I spent most of the day in the ER with some severe pain and medical problems I have had off and on for over 2 years.

My husband has been great with everything. He has been making breakfast, lunch, and dinner for me. He has been cleaning the house, helping me figure out drs appointments, talking to our parents to figure out flights home. He has been doing the jobs of two people and made sure I rested (something I am not very good at).

He has been telling me that he loves me and tells me everything will be okay. He has been telling me that I am beautiful even though I know I look gross. He tells me that no matter what happens I am a great wife. He holds me when I am sad or the pain is uncomfortable. He makes me laugh, and smile everyday.

So even though my valentines day is not filled with flowers and chocolates, it is filled with love. It is filled with a husband who is taking care of me and loves me no matter what. It is filled with the promise that tomorrow we will hopefully have some answers from a dr. I am so grateful for that because I need that now. I am in love with my husband more today than yesterday. I am the luckiest girl in the whole world.

Happy Birthday to my Hot Husband!!

It is Matt's birthday today ... but it feels like we have been celebrate for over a week.

Here are 24 reasons why he deserves the best birthday ever ...

1. He is very ambitious.
2. He is the most kind man ever.
3. He likes everything I cook (even if I do not).
4. He is always happy.
5. He is a really good cook especially with Italian food. 
6. He is very smart. 
7. He is so thoughtful. 
8. He has a lot of patience. 
9. He speaks fluent Italian. 
10. He loves the outdoors. 
11. He is so much older than me ... all four months. 
12. He loves artwork and the Italian culture. 
13. He loves to hike. 
14. He shares my love of diet coke. 
15. He is very supportive of everyone. 
16. His favorite color is blue. 
17. He is a great photographer.
18.  He loves the beach. 
19. He has great sense of man fashion. 
20. He has a sweet tooth.
21. He is great at law school applications. 
22. He loves reading. 
23. He has an amazing testimony. 
24. He loves to laugh. 
25. He is the best husband for me and he just turned 24.

Mike turned 25!

My sisters husband mike turned 25 yesterday and although they are in Michigan and we miss them dearly and wished we could have been there to celebrate together. Well here are some reasons why mike deserves to have a great 25th birthday year.

1. He is very confident
2. He loves my sister
3. He is a steak and potato man
4. He is funny
5. He loves playing basketball
6. He says y'all
7. He loves polo shirts and sperrys
8. He walked with Court and I at BYU graduation
9. He is at law school
10. He is from Florida


Happy birthday mike!

Sicily ... finally editing the end of our Italy trip

This trip was probably my favorite so far. We were able to go back to where Matt served most of his mission. We traveled around Sicily for about a week and loved every minute of it. On Thursday we flew into the Catania airport. This was the city that Matt served most of his mission in. Matt's friends from the English course picked us up. It was way nice to meet them. The daughter spoke very good English which was nice for me to speak English and Italian with here. We went out to lunch to this yummy restaurant and Matt was in heaven. He was right when he said the food is better is Sicily. After lunch we went to the beach to cool off. It was nice to relax and catch up and meet Matt's friends from his mission.

A little later in the day we met up with the lady we stayed with. She was so nice. She was very patient with my limited Italian vocabulary. She had made a few plans for us with some people in the ward. We first made a quick stop at a lady in the wards 90th birthday. There were a lot of members at her house wishing her a happy birthday. Her home was filled with pictures of the temple and Christ. I loved the warm feeling of the people there and could tell why Matt felt such a connection to these people.

After the 90th birthday party we drove up to this town on mount Etna. It was a cute town where one if the members of the ward has an art studio. Her paintings were beautiful. After exploring her gallery we walked around the cute city to the this yummy restaurant. We ate some very delicious food and enjoyed every minute of it.

The next morning we woke up and got ready to go to the other side of Sicily to visit Palermo and Trapani. Before we began our bus ride we walked briefly around the city. Matt pointed out this old Roman ruins and I thought it was so neat to think how old they were and the fact that it was still standing. 

Our bus ride to Palermo was kind of interesting. Instead of a 3 hour bus ride it took more like 4 hours. It was beautiful to see all of Sicily but being stuck in the same spot for 2 hours while they tried to clean up a car explosion was not. The part that made this adventure so funny was that they put all of these cars inside of the tunnel without having the police and fire trucks come through yet. So a lot of cars and trucks had to back out of this tunnel on a very narrow road. 

When we finally arrived to Palermo Matt said he needed to take us to this delicious gelato place. It had so many yummy flavors it was hard to decide. You can tell from Matt's face that the day was made better just because of this gelato. He told me he had been waiting to go there since he left his mission.

After we ate Gelato we explored Palermo and walked past all of the tourist attractions. Matt never served in Palermo but it was in his mission and he visited there. We enjoyed our trip to Palermo but were ready to go to Trapani and meet some people Matt knew from the first area he served in.

In Trapani we were picked up by one of our friends Laura. We went out to dinner and walked around old town. I instantly fell in love with the city. It had much character and was beautiful. We walked around and talked with the members. We spoke Italian and English. 

The next morning we woke up and visited the church and the Branch President when Matt served there (also Laura's Dad). We then went up to Erice a cute little town on the top of the hill. We walked around and saw a beautiful castle, and cute little streets.

Palermo

The Church in Trapani

Erice

 

On Saturday we went to the beach in Trapani. It was beautiful, my favorite beach in Italy. We then took the bus back to Catania and lived through a volcanic eruption. Matt thought the eruption was cool, I was freaking out.  Luckily it only rained ash (for about ninety minutes) where we were and everybody was fine. The next day was Sunday and we went to Church in the Catania. Matt served majority of his mission in Catania. The people there had so much love for him. I instantly fell in love with them. This lady below touched me the instant I met her. Matt baptized her husband a few months before he died. She was so grateful for Matt. I did not know about this story. This lady had such a great testimony that she would be able to be with her husband again and was so appreciative of Matt. I know that this lady will be able to return to be with her husband again.

After Church we went over to our friends for Lunch where I ate way too much food. She made delicious food, because Sicilians are the best cooks in Italy and probably the world. After Lunch we walked around Catania and explored all of these neat places. It was such a beautiful place. We then went over to our other friends for dinner where we ate even more food! It was so much fun to be able to spend almost a week with people.

On Monday we went to Taormina

This trip was my favorite. I loved getting to know the people Matt knew and had made such an impact on his life. I also loved the beach, food, and how beautiful it was. In my dream world I would love to have a house in Trapani to vacation at.

Happy Birthday Courtney!

It is my little sisters birthday! Here are 22 reasons why she deserves the best day ever!

1.  She was a really cute little girl!
2. She has the most beautiful hair! 
3. She is really fun! 
4. She is very independent! 
5. She is very smart!
6. She is very hard working (she has two jobs right now)
7. She dresses very well! 
8. She is competitive! 
9. She is very kind! 
10. She is a great gift giver! 
11. She is a great baker! 
12. She loves Jesus Christ! 
13. She is my best friend! 
14. She loves to travel!
15. She has great taste in music!
16. She is a great sister!
17. She makes really good cookies! 
18. I loved being able to take classes with her! 
19. She always knows how to make me laugh! 
20. She is good at making things better! 
21. She is one of the strongest women I know. 
22. She is great at decorating!

WE LOVE YOU COURT AND WISH YOU THE BEST BIRTHDAY!!

I will update soon

We are back in the states. I have a job. Matt is finishing up his last year of undergrad. We still have to update about our last little bit of Italy. Life is good. We are just not good at blogging that is all the end.